world's most sweetest thing and biggest happiness is to become a parent and parents always want to give best to their baby in every case with in their capability. But adopting a child and becoming their parents is also a biggest happiness.
But what about those children who have not seen their parents those who don't know what is the meaning of parents love, what is the meaning of home? Why we can't be a father and mother of a child who has no one in this world except this orphanage? Why can't we give them a home, a opportunity to call mama and papa? why we can't give them a smile of having their parents?
Many people think adoption is a good idea of giving a child those things which she/he has dreamed like parents whom they can call father and mother,happiness,their home,best education and many more.
But on the other hand many have a mentality that if we can have our own baby then why we will adopt a child.
When I asked some people about adopting a child then the reply is shocking and laughing one also. They say that who can't give birth to a baby they adopt a child. We can give birth to a baby then why we will adopt a child. If we adopt a baby then they will not be our blood, may be they are not our cast,our religion and our parents will not accept them. These answer came from educated persons.
Why people mentality is like this I don't know but it's a very wrong thinking about adoption. If we really want to adopt a child then we must have strong mentality and it shouldn't change in any circumstances.
It's about orphanage adoption reality but adoption doesn't means only about orphanage children it's also about a step son or daughter adoption.
I have seen and listened in those homes where there is step mother or father comes they can't accept child of their husband or wife. I have listened it mostly in step mother cases. when step mother comes to a home she doesn't accept her step child and starts behave very badly with that child.
When a men/women or girl get married to a married person then they must have listened about that person before the marriage. Then what's the problem in adopting that child who wants to see a father or mother in their new parent.
It's all about our mentality and thought which needs to be changed and to give love and affection which these children expect from us. When our mentality will change towards these children that will bring happiness in these children.
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